The resources below are for women that find themselves in abusive situations and have no idea where to begin. I’ve been a victim of verbal, emotional, spiritual, and sexual abuse at various stages in my life….all at the hands of other believers. Abuse of any kind is a taboo subject in most Christian circles. Many times, I believe it is simply because no one knows what to do.
Unfortunately what ends up happening is the victim is handed a placating smile or nod, a scripture that makes them feel that they somehow brought this on themselves, given a dismissive statement along the lines of ‘you’re probably just misunderstanding’, and then wrapped up with the ‘we’ll be praying for you and for reconciliation’.
God restores some relationships. Other times He closes a door and it is time to move on. Unfortunately, time and time again the body of Christ sits back and offers no solutions except for reconciliation, even in the worst of situations. I don't see that as being the only Biblical option.
As with anything, read with an open heart and through your Holy Spirit discernment lens. Take everything to the Lord and to the Word.
The place to start if you've never been allowed to have boundaries in any relationship.
Very nuts and bolts, direct approach. He calls it like he sees it. This is NOT the 'gentle parenting' approach. His website has podcasts, counselors, and more resources.
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